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“ What’s up with the choking, slapping, spitting, and rough sex in some porn releases? And, those oral sex gaggings! What’s sensuous about it? What’s sexy about it? What message might some viewers, especially guys, possibly/wrongly assume from seeing such aberrations in adult films and mistakenly rationalize it as normal or ok, and later try to copycat it into their own sexual relationships? Now, I admit that I’ve heard lots of women on sets and in the swinging world comment about the joy and pleasure they get from being ‘taken,’ or ‘dominated,’ or made to ‘subordinate’ themselves to the pleasures of their guy; I respect their choices and right to participate in such sexual practices, but I sometimes wonder if perhaps some of these ladies think (or were pushed to think?) that they truly enjoy handing over sexual control, when unfortunately some of them might possibly suffer from low self-esteem or some other disorder, or from a persistence from a husband/boyfriend who’s seen such acts in some adult films and has pushed them into it. […] I’m worried, […] that companies highlighting such ‘rough’ behaviors see enough patronage sales that they will continue putting out such content, possibly ‘raising’ new viewers to expect their future sexual partners to welcome the fantasy depicted on film. Male teens growing into manhood and viewing such acts possibly don’t easily realize that what they view on their screens are actors/actresses and consenting adults ‘acting’ and depicting fantasy, not normal reality! […] If I personally could wave a magic wand, it would be for all adult video producers to cease depicting the aforementioned. As a viewer, I want to see sexy couplings that sexually turn me on, not unrealistic physical acts of an almost-violent nature that disgust me, as it probably also does to many other viewers and potential customers. […] I think our right to free speech also encompasses a responsibility on our part to foster good, respectful, and proper behaviors. Just like it’s wrong to falsely scream ‘fire’ in a crowded theater, I feel that it’s wrong to portray sexually aberrant depictions as anything but abnormal fantasy - not reality!
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